Divorce Mediation Services
Resolve your separation with respect, control and dignity — without the cost, delay and uncertainty of court.
Why choose mediation with Tim van Rooyen & Associates?
At Tim van Rooyen & Associates we help separating couples reach fair, practical agreements on parenting, property, maintenance and the practicalities of ending a marriage — quickly, confidentially and with the minimum of stress. Tim is an experienced family law practitioner who combines legal expertise with a calm, pragmatic mediation style so clients retain control of outcomes rather than leaving decisions to a judge.
Mediation is ideal when you want:
Mediation is ideal when you want:
- Faster, less expensive resolution than litigation
- Privacy (mediation is confidential)
- Flexible, tailor-made agreements that fit your family’s needs
- To preserve a workable co-parenting relationship where possible
Our mediation services
We offer a full suite of divorce-mediation services, including:
Family / Parenting Agreements
Family / Parenting Agreements
- Parenting plans (live-in arrangements, holidays, handover logistics, communication protocols)
- Parental contact schedules and virtual contact arrangements
- Decision-making authority for schooling, medical care and travel
- Division of matrimonial assets and liabilities
- Valuation coordination (when needed) and proposals for equalisation payments
- Agreements on the matrimonial home, transfers, and interim occupation
- Needs assessments and sustainable maintenance proposals
- Short-term interim arrangements and long-term maintenance schedules
- Debt allocation, bank accounts, household goods
- Restructuring of business interests where applicable
- Drafting settlement agreements suitable for court and your own tailored needs
Our mediation process — clear, practical, respectful
- Initial consultation (30–60 mins)
Confidential meeting (joint or separate) to identify issues, goals and whether mediation is suitable. - Preparation & information exchange
We help prepare documents, financial disclosures and an agenda so mediation time is focused and productive. - Mediation sessions
Neutral, structured sessions facilitated by Tim (in-person or via secure video link). We guide negotiation, manage expectations and keep discussions on track. - Drafting agreement
Once terms are agreed, we draft a clear settlement agreement tailored to your needs and particular circumstances. - Finalisation & implementation
We assist with lodging all documents and obtaining decree of divorce, transfers and conveyance of immovable property, and any follow-up steps to make the agreement effective.
Benefits of choosing mediation over litigation
Faster: Mediation often resolves matters in weeks or months versus years in court.
Cheaper: Fewer professional fees and reduced court costs.
Greater control: Parties design outcomes that work for them (not a judge).
Less acrimony: A collaborative process reduces hostility — better for children.
Confidential: Discussions are private, not part of a public court record.
Cheaper: Fewer professional fees and reduced court costs.
Greater control: Parties design outcomes that work for them (not a judge).
Less acrimony: A collaborative process reduces hostility — better for children.
Confidential: Discussions are private, not part of a public court record.
Frequently asked questions
Q: Is mediation legally binding?
A: The mediation session is without prejudice, however, should a written agreement be reached in mediation this is binding once reduced to a signed settlement and, where appropriate, made an order of court.
Q: What if one party won’t negotiate?
A: We can assess options, including legal steps if mediation is not possible.
Q: Why is mediation cheaper and better?
A: mediation is cheaper because it saves time, reduces the number of professionals involved, and avoids costly litigation steps.
Q: Will I lose rights by mediating?
A: No. Mediation is voluntary — you only agree to what you accept. We ensure you understand legal consequences before signing.
A: The mediation session is without prejudice, however, should a written agreement be reached in mediation this is binding once reduced to a signed settlement and, where appropriate, made an order of court.
Q: What if one party won’t negotiate?
A: We can assess options, including legal steps if mediation is not possible.
Q: Why is mediation cheaper and better?
A: mediation is cheaper because it saves time, reduces the number of professionals involved, and avoids costly litigation steps.
Q: Will I lose rights by mediating?
A: No. Mediation is voluntary — you only agree to what you accept. We ensure you understand legal consequences before signing.